How many times you have sex with your partner?

[naan1974]

Originally Posted by itguy2008

They say they don't cheat or lie or change. They say they will be faithful.

Day 1 when they put on their fake eyelash and their push-up bra, I should have learnt that their lies already started.

Cheating and lying can be very grey and pretty much subjected to individual perspectives.
To gals, fake eye lashes and pushup bra are superficial self fulfilment thus it's not cheating or lying.
To men, transactional sex is also superficial sexual activity, thus we also feel it's not cheating mah. tiobo ?

[itguy2008]

Originally Posted by naan1974

Cheating and lying can be very grey and pretty much subjected to individual perspectives.
To gals, fake eye lashes and pushup bra are superficial self fulfilment thus it's not cheating or lying.
To men, transactional sex is also superficial sexual activity, thus we also feel it's not cheating mah. tiobo ?

I see. You mean if my wife or gf can accept me having superficial transactional sexual activity then I should accept her fake eye lashes and push up bra la?

Interestingly..... most gf or wife cannot accept superficial transactional sexual activity, they will call it cheating.

[marcussia]

Sadly, with my married one is nonexistent...

Others, 3-4times a week If they are able to meet up.

[fac89]

Originally Posted by marcussia

Sadly, with my married one is nonexistent...

Others, 3-4times a week If they are able to meet up.

You are the man bro.

Same here. Legally married one beoming non existence since 6 mths ago. Others maybe once a week depending on how deep my wallet is for the mth.

[fac89]

Originally Posted by Notafemale

I use to have sex with my partner almost every time we see each other. She use to give blowjobs in the car, sex a few times a day, cum in pussy, cum in mouth, then after marriage, it went from few times a week, to once a week, once every two weeks, once every 3 weeks and some times once a month.

Usually this happens after child birth. The focus, the energy will be on the child. At the end of the day, your partner will not have the energy or mood for you.

To men out there who are facing this, you are not alone.

Yeah. We are not alone. B4 marriage fuck like rabbit daily. After marriage still ok. After kids getting lesser. Tried many ways to spice thing up but alway the same reasons - tired, no mood, sick, headache, giddy, aunty visit, ulcer, sore throat. U will feel like you are stupid to even ask and accept the same lame excuses.

Things got better abt 2 years ago and suddenly died down again. Last sex maybe 1.5yrs ago. Am lucky to be able to outsource with ML or FB. But still feel quite a failure to pcc in the toilet every now and then. Wtf life is this in SG?

[fac89]

Originally Posted by boycott

I can't remember when was the last time, maybe 2 months ago?
Usual reasons: tired after work, prefers to watch drama, etc etc

After years of marriage, time come when there were just too many disagreements and arguments, now even I have even less mood to bang. Pleasuring myself with toys and hands is more convenient and better than trying to engage in intimacy, which will usually hit a dead-end.

Sad but true, now I finally understand why people seek a 'fast one' outside of home. No obligations, no questions asked, just a business transaction for both parties.

Totally agrees. Its sad but true. Cant fully blame the men for eating out as we are still normal healthy male that has urge.

[Demonk]

Everyday. I am able to go 3 rounds each session

[Notafemale]

Originally Posted by fac89

Yeah. We are not alone. B4 marriage fuck like rabbit daily. After marriage still ok. After kids getting lesser. Tried many ways to spice thing up but alway the same reasons - tired, no mood, sick, headache, giddy, aunty visit, ulcer, sore throat. U will feel like you are stupid to even ask and accept the same lame excuses.

Things got better abt 2 years ago and suddenly died down again. Last sex maybe 1.5yrs ago. Am lucky to be able to outsource with ML or FB. But still feel quite a failure to pcc in the toilet every now and then. Wtf life is this in SG?

Yea bro, I had quite a number of talk with my wife about this. The lack of intimacy will be the death of our marriage. We will be like housemates / roommates only.

Anyway, just a few days ago she decided to initiate sex and i managed to snap a picture of her ass for you guys. Sorry about the quality.

[frankheart20]

About 3 times a week

[guak]

Originally Posted by Notafemale

Yea bro, I had quite a number of talk with my wife about this. The lack of intimacy will be the death of our marriage. We will be like housemates / roommates only.

Anyway, just a few days ago she decided to initiate sex and i managed to snap a picture of her ass for you guys. Sorry about the quality.

Nice share bro. I guess you guys fuck more often now?

[Notafemale]

Originally Posted by guak

Nice share bro. I guess you guys fuck more often now?

Well this was the first in about 3 weeks. Hope the momentum keeps going. I have staved off looking for sex outside, I was close to it but couldn't do it.

It's a compliment from you which I will give to her discreetly.

[Whiskywater]

Depends on mood... sometimes 3 sometimes 4 a month nowadays... sometimes just BBBJ and CIM

[dragonhospital]

not too often maybe 1-2 a week

[DIDIGOGO]

Once a month only. Which is enough for me just to satisfy her.

I am the one that have no sex urge on her.

[Peacekeeping]

Originally Posted by DIDIGOGO

Once a month only. Which is enough for me just to satisfy her.

I am the one that have no sex urge on her.

No sex urge still can marikita? I don’t know how some guys can cope when their wife full of wrinkles with droopy boobs and belly fat. Can stand meh?