(serious) Need help. .

[omglol]

This may not be the best place to post.
But my gf got pregnant after 7 years without protection

We are not ready for a baby.
Can advice the next steps to take where to visit

[parrotkid]

How do you know you are not ready to have a child?
Give the poor baby a chance. Go for counselling first to be clearer on whether the two of you are not ready for a child.
Some people try very hard and they do not even get pregnant.
This child could be a gift from God to the two of you.

[bababoo]

If she is with u for 7 years, marry her and keep the child. Be responsible man

[4headsnake]

Keep the baby . Some couples can't even conceive
no matter how hard they try after years , min 10 years.
Some even cost a boom
to do ivf .

[omglol]

Not just me
It's WE dont want

[steelhorn]

Bro, this is a precious gift from up there. Consider yourself lucky. Pls give a deep thought and let this foetus live on to see the world just like you and me. U definitely hv your reason for not getting ready for her birth. Remember, if is due to financial status that you are giving it up, I don't agree. There are many ways to seek assistance for this reason.
So, pls, pls think carefully..we only live once, she also only live once. But her time into this world is so short if you still stand by your decision. Fair?
船到桥头自然直。

[ColdBlood99]

Originally Posted by omglol

This may not be the best place to post.
But my gf got pregnant after 7 years without protection

We are not ready for a baby.
Can advice the next steps to take where to visit

Originally Posted by omglol

Not just me
It's WE dont want

try to speak with her. just get marry and fuck again

[yangguo]

Having a child is a calling. Keep it.

[BroRelax]

Keep the child & marry your girl friend. Be a man.

[G111]

Originally Posted by omglol

This may not be the best place to post.
But my gf got pregnant after 7 years without protection

We are not ready for a baby.
Can advice the next steps to take where to visit

How long has the baby come along? Best to visit a doctor and consult. If it is not too late it will be much easier and will do less damage to your partner's womb/vagina.

[Cool46]

Be a man bro.. Be responsible of what you have done.. A child is a bless from God bro... You can do it bro...

[Marito1970]

Bro, feel sorry for the little one.. he/she is unwanted even before entering the world..

I cant advice on how to abort the child (i suppose you can ask the gynae or something).. But you should seriously reconsider your next step.. it will be a life changing experience either you keep or abort the child.

[prettymannequin]

You guys would probably like to consider and discuss your reasons for not wanting your child, and whether the reasons are truly valid.

[Steley]

Give the little one a chance, think twice before u decide.
U hv been together for 7 yrs, I think this is the time to get married

[Xia406]

Originally Posted by omglol

This may not be the best place to post.
But my gf got pregnant after 7 years without protection

We are not ready for a baby.
Can advice the next steps to take where to visit

Be a man and bear the consequences!